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 That's It, I'm Done

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Total pity post ahead...

In Aug 2007 when at our apartment in bed sleeping DH and I went through a home invasion and were robbed.

In Sept 2007 that apartment building caught on fire

3 weeks later we found a new place to move into & moved.

We got married a week after that.

During that time FIL lost the ability to walk, his cancer spread up his spine. He died 3 weeks after our wedding.

We started TTC'ing at that time. 1 chemical & 1 miscarriage later we're still dealing with infertility.

2ish weeks ago a cousin of mine with 6 young kids was diagnosed with pancreatic cancer & was told to get his affairs in order.

On Friday I took my dog to the vet because she's not been feeling well, I was told she has a tumour behind her eye and that she's dying.

Today, today DH called me and told me we'd been broken into AGAIN.

I feel so damn bad for my dying dog, what if this person that was in our place today hit her? I can't see her sitting by and letting someone rob us. That stress must have been great for her tumour. She pooped & pee'd every where and was scared to come back into our house after the finger printing people from the police department left...

We made an $8000 insurance claim the last time we were broken into, we can't make another one, no one will ever insure us again.

I've had enough. I am at the point that I can't even say we have bad luck. I am actually laughing about being broken into today. I think I might actually be losing my mind. I have no wind left in my sails. I am defeated. I have no fight left in me and really that's what's making me sad. I am more sad that they've stolen my fight then anything else they took. gonnacry

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 14 Sep 2010 12:58 AM
 26 Mar 2009
Poppy_Cat
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I wish I could say something to make it better for you. Instead I will give you a (sincere) virtual hug. (((HUG)))

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 14 Sep 2010 1:01 AM
 29 Apr 2007
 The Nuthouse
Sidney
Raving Lunatic
13,034
I'm so sorry RCG. You're fabulous. Persevere. This too shall pass.

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 14 Sep 2010 1:01 AM
 17 Aug 2008
She
Devotee
1,229
I honestly wish there was something that I could do to help.

I am so sorry for all the crap that you have been having to go through, No one should have to endure all of that.

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 14 Sep 2010 1:03 AM
 15 Jun 2008
 Calgary : )
Nire
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5,130
Oh my goodness, I just want to reach out and hug you, that is a lot of crap to deal with.

What do you need? What can we do?

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 14 Sep 2010 1:05 AM
 18 Jul 2006
Dazed
Postaholic
8,516
Your fight will come back. But you don't need it right now. Laugh. Cry. Be angry. Everything you want or don't want. But don't try to force your fight back right now, the reservoir will fill up again over time.

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 14 Sep 2010 1:12 AM
 28 Jul 2008
 Vancouver, BC
OopsieBaby
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I'm so sorry for this onslaught of cr@p you've been dealing with. No one deserves to be tested this way. I haven no idea what you're feeling or how to make it better but if there's anything I can do to help please let me know.

((HUGS))

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 14 Sep 2010 1:13 AM
 14 Feb 2007
 Kitchener, ON - from Montreal
TeamGreen
Fan
945
Wow...you guys have gone through a lot recently. I'm sorry for all your struggles. That being said, in terms of the house, I would get an alarm...one of those live people alarm companies who call you or come right away to the house if there's a break in. I'd want to take control of this situation as much as possible if moving locations/towns is not an option. I can really imagine how much this would p!ss you off. Give your pooch a big hug for me!

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 14 Sep 2010 1:14 AM
 1 Jan 2010
tentenohnine
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This seriously blows. It makes my heart hurt that all this sh!t is happening to such great people.

What can we do for you? Should we call an emergency GTG this weekend and take you out for a stiff drink?

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 14 Sep 2010 1:16 AM
 25 Mar 2010
Calypso
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Oh man, RCG. BIG hugs. That is just awful. I am so sorry you have had such a rotten series of events. You WILL find your fight again but for now, take care of yourself, girl. Ugh, I wanna kick some serious criminal butt for you. I really don't understand how some people can be so heartless. ((hugs))

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 14 Sep 2010 1:17 AM
 24 Feb 2006
 back in Canada
brighteyes
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i have no words. You're in my thoughts and prayers and I'm sending you a huge virtual hug!

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 14 Sep 2010 1:19 AM
 26 Nov 2009
 Vanncouver, BC
KayDub
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862
**HUGS**

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 14 Sep 2010 1:35 AM
 28 Dec 2007
 GTA
shawnita
Weddingbeller
858
I seriously just shed a few tears for you.

Ugh, I'm on here at 130 in the morning because I can't sleep, have been crying for the last 36 hours, and came on here to write my own pity post.

I'm also going through a hellish streak, and wouldn't wish it on anyone. I think I understand a little how you feel.

Sorry you are going through this. And a big hug.

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 14 Sep 2010 1:37 AM
 9 Aug 2006
 Langley
walkinthepark
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Honestly - for two sincerely good human beings, I just don't know why this crap continues to fall on you guys.

{{{{GIGANTIC HUGS}}}}

PLEASE let us know if there's ANYTHING we can do to help. Even if it is taking you out for tea, or some sort of fancy-non coffee Starbucks, or something a bit stiffer.

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 14 Sep 2010 4:05 AM
 8 Jun 2009
Siiera
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Oh wow, so sorry to hear you are going through such hell. frown

I agree with Dazed, just let yourself feel the way you do and in time the world won't look so bleak.

Sorry about your dog. frown

Two home invasions/break ins must be so tough to handle because your sanctuary was distrubed. It is common to experience symptoms of post traumatic stress disorder after a break in. I'm not saying that is what you have but your feelings are completely normal after everything you've been through so don't feel so bad for being so down.

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 14 Sep 2010 5:09 AM
 19 Mar 2009
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NBabyMakes3
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Unbelieveable. Unfarkingbelieveable.

Virtual hugs, and you're going to take them, missy. (shakes fist)

RCG, seriously. I think a caught break is in order, no? mad

coffee? tea? booze?

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 14 Sep 2010 5:36 AM
 24 Oct 2007
 Halifax
MrsPL
Postaholic
6,751
Oh RCG, that royally sucks!! I hope your dog feels better soon and that not too much was taken from your apartment. Things will get better, they have to!

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 14 Sep 2010 6:18 AM
 27 Apr 2006
 Kitchener
Teacher_Wife
Raving Lunatic
10,046
Of for fsck sake. I figure that that is some of the worst luck you could imagine. Lots of hugs. This calls for booze, and a 3 month vacation. Hope you can at least swing the booze.

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 14 Sep 2010 7:00 AM
 21 Feb 2008
Brinka
WB Addict
3,445
RCG, I honestly don't know what to say.

Many people would have been defeated long ago with everything you've been through - I don't know you, but I would say that you're an incredibly strong person. I have a feeling you'll get your 'fight' back in time.

I'm so sorry that you have to continue to deal with so much crap. If there's anything at all that I can do, please let me know.

Thinking of you!

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 14 Sep 2010 7:20 AM
 12 Sep 2007
 Winnipeg, Manitoba
Mae
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6,992
I'm so sorry that's just terrible your going through this

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 14 Sep 2010 7:46 AM
 13 Aug 2010
honeysher 2.0
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I wish I knew what to say other than that I'm so sorry.

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 14 Sep 2010 7:56 AM
 9 May 2009
baby_toes
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I am so sorry frown I am sending you big hugs.

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 14 Sep 2010 8:17 AM
 1 Jan 2010
vlahopg
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I'm sorry to hear you have had all these bad things happen to you. I hope that things start improving for your family and I'm sorry about your FIL passing and your dog being so ill now.

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 14 Sep 2010 8:17 AM
 10 Jun 2010
B_Mc
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Wow that is way too much crap on one person's plate...

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 14 Sep 2010 8:30 AM
 12 May 2010
monkeyup
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What a heartbreaking post. I'm so sorry that you are going through all of this. We are all here to help you! ((((hugs))))

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 14 Sep 2010 9:08 AM
 17 Feb 2005
 Chesley ON
Heavinlyn
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{{{HUGS}}} I wish I could make it all better for you.

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 14 Sep 2010 9:11 AM
 24 Jun 2007
mrs_k
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RCG I'm so sorry to hear about this onslaught of utter crap. It's not fair. I hope your dog is feeling a bit better.

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 14 Sep 2010 9:13 AM
 14 Jul 2010
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Ms_Roc
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Oh my goodness, that is so much to take. I'm so sorry this has all happened to you and your family frown you are such a strong person!

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 14 Sep 2010 9:19 AM
 30 Dec 2009
wildred
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RCG, ugh. How horrible. I am sorry you have no fight left. It's stupid that the insurance company won't insure you if you make a second claim. (My parents had the same problem).

Take care.

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 14 Sep 2010 9:23 AM
 25 Apr 2007
BridenStride
WB Addict
3,562
Sorry to hear the world is sh!tting on you right now. I find it comes in waves too.

I'd try bringing good karma to you...maybe change your avatar on here or something? I dunno.

Positive thoughts coming your way....





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 14 Sep 2010 9:24 AM
 21 Oct 2004
 Halifax
frequent_flyer
Forum Devotee
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Oh boys! That is a lot to handle my dear - you are in need of a break - a very big break and a very stiff drink. Many many hugs are sent your way. I'm thinking about you hon! xoxoxoxoxoxoxoxo

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 14 Sep 2010 9:26 AM
 22 Sep 2004
 In the Land of Misfit Toys
evil.mena
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14,430
I have no words either, it really does suck.

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 14 Sep 2010 9:47 AM
 6 Jul 2010
 South Western ON
vanillacoffee
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((((hugs))))))

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 14 Sep 2010 9:49 AM
 2 May 2005
Maritime Mama
Raving Lunatic
11,970
Sometimes it feels like the world is just against us doesn't? I'm so sorry - you've been thru so much in the last couple of years. I've been there and it's really hard to keep going and not wonder what you've done to make the universe sh!t on you isn't? BUT it really does take a strong person to get thru such difficult things. HUGS - we're here for you in any capacity we can be.

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 14 Sep 2010 10:19 AM
 14 May 2007
jettagirl
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1,091
Holy crap, RCG! I am so sorry you are having to deal with all of this - that's a heck of a lot of stuff to have been through frown

I sincerely hope things turn around for you pronto and that you end up riding a wicked string of good luck...you totally deserve it!!

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 14 Sep 2010 10:22 AM
 3 Jun 2008
 Ottawa, ON
Bebe_Mama
WB Postaholic
9,176
Oh no, I am so sorry to hear about everything you have been through. You are such a strong woman, but everyone needs a break sometimes. I am sending you tons of hugs and just wish there was more that I could do.

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 14 Sep 2010 10:24 AM
 24 Jan 2005
 Calgary
tojules
Raving Lunatic
11,202
Just makes you want to kick luck in the balls and then stand there and scream until you feel better.

Totally sucks what's happened to you, wow. I wish I could give you some big hugs...and hugs and lots of loves to your pup too. Definitely sending all the postiive karma and good luck your way that I can.

Anything we can do to help you out??

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 14 Sep 2010 10:28 AM
 12 Jul 2005
Arielle
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I'm so so sorry RCG. That sucks royally. I hope things start to turn around. You should take up kickboxing so you can punch out your frustrations and get some fight back!

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 14 Sep 2010 10:29 AM
 26 Nov 2009
MAWL
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I agree with April, Canhardlywait, and Tojules..... Is there anything we can do to help you?

I am speachless, I really do not know what to say!

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 14 Sep 2010 10:29 AM
 12 Sep 2006
Gabby004
Weddingbeller
907
Wow, you poor thing, you've been through so freakin much in the last little while. frown I know what you mean about being so upset that you just laugh and you feel like a crazy person for doing so, I've been there. I wish there were words of wisdom that I could offer you but I don't have any. Sorry. But I do send out the biggest, strongest hug your way! Take care of your self. (((HUGS)))

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 14 Sep 2010 10:31 AM
 21 Oct 2009
lastone
Postaholic
8,824
I am so sorry.

I know what is feels like to have life pile up on you beyond your control.

Keep marching. That is my motto now.

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 14 Sep 2010 10:38 AM
 13 Jun 2005
 Toronto, ON
aw2006
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Wow, RCG, I'm left speechless. Another kick in the balls is def. not what you needed. I wish there was something I could do for you. Sending much love.

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 14 Sep 2010 10:49 AM
 14 Jul 2009
 Ottawa
BandAidChik
Postaholic
9,318
I am wishing nothing but good things from here forward. You've had enough rain in your life. Time for some sunshine!

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 14 Sep 2010 10:51 AM
 21 Feb 2008
 Edmonton, AB
miss_cait
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1,683
omg.
that sucks...
I'm so sorry RCG. I don't even know what I would do if I was in your shoes.
Even if you don't really feel it right now....you are an incredibly strong person.

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 14 Sep 2010 10:52 AM
 28 Jul 2009
 Ottawa, On
Rymistri
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1,398
Ugh, so sorry RCG.

I'm thinking incredibly happy thoughts for you! I'm really hoping this is it, the turning point, from here on...things look up!

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 14 Sep 2010 10:53 AM
 27 Oct 2009
mrssp
Devotee
1,502
I'm so, SO sorry.

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 14 Sep 2010 10:56 AM
 29 Dec 2008
 Vancouver, BC
snowpea
WB Devotee
2,226
((HUGS)) I am so very sorry- that is just so unfair!

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 14 Sep 2010 11:14 AM
 28 Jul 2004
SeptGal
Raving Lunatic
11,037
That is more crap than one person should endure in a lifetime. You will persevere, you already have.

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 14 Sep 2010 11:32 AM
 27 Jan 2006
 Calgary, AB
August26Bride
WB Addict
3,289
I am so sorry for everything you have been through. You are a strong woman and you will be able to get through this.

I hope your dog is okay. Big hugs!

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 14 Sep 2010 11:36 AM
 12 May 2005
 Alberta
ldb
Postaholic
7,204
I hope this is the end of your unlucky streak. What a crappy hand.

I'm so sorry about everything, and I hope your pup wasn't too traumatized by the most recent ordeal.

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