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 Sexy Time: 2 Polls

The bleaching your hole thread got into an interesting discussion...

So...

The majority of the time when having sex, do you leave the lights on or off?

The majority of the time when having sex, do you do it under the blankets, or on top/no blankets?


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 12 Apr 2012 5:44 PM
 2 Aug 2008
The_Momma
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Lights off or on, depends on where we are and what we have previously been doing. Middle of the night wake up sex, no lights, in the living room watching tv, if we already had the lights on. I said on though

For blankets same deal, in bed middle of the night, blankets on, in the bonus room on the couch, no blankets around.
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 12 Apr 2012 5:46 PM
 24 Mar 2010
 Cambridge, Ontario
MoonCat
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Blankets just get in the way, and the lighting depends on the situation smile
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 12 Apr 2012 6:25 PM
 8 Jan 2010
Tart
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Blankets are a no go, and I don't think I've ever had sex in the dark. Lights off, sure, but only if there's enough ambient light to see what's going on. shades
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 12 Apr 2012 6:42 PM
 17 Feb 2005
 Chesley ON
Heavinlyn
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Lights - depends on where and when

Blankets - we usually start underneath them but they very quickly get tossed aside and end up on the floor
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 12 Apr 2012 6:43 PM
 25 Feb 2009
 Ottawa
bridetobe2709
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Hahaha - Im the only one who voted "other" for the lights. We don't purposely have them on or off - depends on where, when, time of day ...

Sheets - never under them. That's too restrictive.
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 12 Apr 2012 6:59 PM
 9 Jul 2005
 Around, SK
LadyAurora
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On top of sheets / blankets / no sheets on bed.

Lights are always on. Because of stuff I went through when I was a kid, I just can't do it with lights out. It brings on flashbacks and those aren't sexy time thoughts.
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 12 Apr 2012 7:01 PM
 19 Apr 2008
 Regina, *home* is E-Town!
Tanky
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Lights - eh, I didn't know how to answer.

I did answer dim, but I've also had sex in the middle of broad daylight, on the couch with all lights on, it doesn't really matter, but I find it more 'intimate' or 'romantic' with a bedside light on rather than an overhead light.


Sheets - neverrrr, too tangly.
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 12 Apr 2012 7:16 PM
 7 Nov 2011
 bottom of the glass
Probably Drunk
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If it's daytime there's light. If it's nighttime it's dark.

I don't understand this under the blanket business. How does that even work beyond missionary?
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 12 Apr 2012 7:34 PM
 15 Jan 2007
candctroll
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When it is cold we do start out under the blankets. I am a frigid witch and he does not get any of the good stuff until I get warmed up and then we throw off the covers and do the deed. So I guess you could say foreplay if it's cold = under the covers.
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 12 Apr 2012 7:55 PM
 19 Jan 2012
 BC
GoodGrief
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Well. I've just learned that at 35 years old, I've been doing it ALL WRONG my adult life. Sex in the dark, with blankets.

Poor DH!
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 12 Apr 2012 7:57 PM
 19 Jan 2012
 BC
GoodGrief
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Okay, other 21 ladies out there - please help my case. Doing it with blankets is okay. I don't seem to have this tangly problem that others have. And there's lots of different, er, positions that I've had The Sex, and other than the times I've gotten really overheated, I'm naked! I still need coverage! I get COLD FAST!
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 12 Apr 2012 8:25 PM
 6 Jul 2010
 South Western ON
vanillacoffee
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Typically Lights off (unless we are both home and in the mood during the day, which is rarely). We have no curtains on the windoes.

No covers
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 12 Apr 2012 8:34 PM
 24 Nov 2010
 Canada
BlondieKim
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Lights on, most of the time (DH prefers it, I don't really care).

Blankets are always off. We both get hot waaaaay too easily.
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 12 Apr 2012 9:43 PM
 8 Apr 2009
 Ontario
Gir
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Blankets are always pushed to the bottom of the bed. Things may start under a blanket, but a few seconds later they are gone.

As for lights, if we're in the bedroom the bedside light is often on. If it happens to be already off there is enough light that comes through the window (though sometimes we will turn in back on). So I voted Dim light.
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 12 Apr 2012 10:04 PM
 7 Nov 2011
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I really wish someone would explain the logistics of hiding under a blanket whilst getting your freak on. Do you simply limit yourselves to one or two positions ever? Or do you pull the blanket right up over your heads and pretend you're camping?
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 12 Apr 2012 10:18 PM
 19 Jan 2012
 BC
GoodGrief
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Tee hee - pretend you're camping.

Thank you for the support Poulette. Without sounding too weird, that's us too.
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 12 Apr 2012 10:27 PM
 19 Jan 2012
 BC
GoodGrief
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I think I better stop looking at this thread. I'm now trying to imagine how you all do The Foreplay and The Sex outside of blankets, and what positions I'm missing out on.
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 13 Apr 2012 10:04 AM
 28 Mar 2006
JulyBride06
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Start out with blankets....then loose them as things heat up!
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 13 Apr 2012 10:07 AM
 20 Oct 2003
 Ontario
MrsG2004
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Lights off if it happens in the middle of the night. If the lights are on when it starts they stay on and no blankets.
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 13 Apr 2012 10:12 AM
 26 Aug 2005
 Toronto, ON
honeybee
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Lights? It depends on the when and where.

Blankets? Usually only if we went upstairs for a quicky and don't want the kids walking in on us. We don't have a lock on the door since that brings back bad memories.
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 13 Apr 2012 12:10 PM
 23 Aug 2005
 Milford, Nova Scotia
Kathryn
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Lights off or dim generally although I'm ok with lights on in certain circumstances. We usually start out with blankets because I am always cold, they get torn off or fall off whenever.

We have always done most of the foreplay and sometimes the entire session under the blankets. Its really not a hassle or an issue for us at all. Maybe DH and I just aren't quite as rambunctious as some of you guys?? We use several different positions, and the only ones I can think of that really won't work with blankets are 69 and doggy style. Maybe I am missing out??? lol
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 31 Oct 2012 11:59 PM
 30 Apr 2012
 buzzle.ca
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