Auntieli - I forgot to answer this before. NFP is super easy once you get into the routine. They didn't really mention the time-sensitivity of some of the steps, but when I first started doing it, I did the "online course" on www.fertilityfriend.com
and found it super informative. I still use that site for all of my tracking, they have iphone apps (but I have a BB), and the mobile access on the blackberry isn't too bad either. Even if you don't plan on making changes until after the wedding, you might find it helpful to at least go through the online tutorial, it really does take a couple months of charting to get the hang of things and really see a pattern.
TnT - Honeymooning in Turkey sounds amazing! What made you choose Turkey? I'm not sure if we'll go on one right away, but we're hoping to go to California and do a road trip down the coast. We're only going to book flights and rent a car, everything else will be day by day!
Meechie - Love your blog! I usually have creativity coming out the wazoo.. but for some reason, nothing is really coming to me wedding-wise. I'm super jealous of all of the hard work you've put in, your guests are sure to notice, and comment on all of your very personal touches
I also really like the way the candles look with the vellum around them!
Lysh - I don't know if anyone posted this yet, but have you seen these?: Save your heels!
I bet no one would even notice them under your dress, and you could just pull them off after the ceremony. I've never used them, I'm more of a wedge heel girl myself, but I've heard that they work well. That's too bad that your FMIL went and bought a dress the same color as your mom's, especially if she said she was going to look for something totally different. I don't think my mom has decided on anything yet, but my FMIL bought an amazing purple dress, she lost a lot of weight this year, she's going to look great in it!
I'm kind of at a point where I don't know what to do next. This past week, I finished up some stuff for invitations, I'm debating making a map for them. I did a map for my friend's invites last summer, and just made it in photoshop. I might do the same for mine.
The dress is here, and any alterations will only be minor, so they told me to book for July. I can't start grouping guests by table since we don't know who will RSVP yes, I can start place cards, but can't finish those for the same reason. The florist told me to go talk to them more in the late spring to finalize flower choices, but I'm open to any green flower, I don't want anything other than green, no white or anything! So, again, I've done all we can do there, including buying vases.
I need to go garage sale shopping or something for picture frames, but I have yet to see a single one so far this year.
I have not had ANY luck finding green high heels. Height is negotiable, I'm comfortable in almost anything, but I'd really like something open toed. The only ones I've found so far (that I LOVED) were $320, so they're going to have to be on my "last resort" list.
Anyone else stuck in this do-nothing phase?