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Zestica Fertility instead of Pre-Seed?
I just wanted to add that my DH urologist said not to use any lube even if it says that it is sperm friendly. We...
I just wanted to add that my DH urologist said not to use any lube even if it says that it is sperm friendly.
We used preseed for 10 cycles and as soon as I ran out, I got pregnant. It clearly didnt work for us. I know it does work for some but I wanted to share our story.
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Mat Leave - Federal Government employees
Mat Leave Date When is the best time to start mat leave? I started my mat leave 2 weeks before baby was born and I...
Mat Leave Date
When is the best time to start mat leave?
I started my mat leave 2 weeks before baby was born and I had about 2 weeks of other leave. I know I have to go back early but I was sick.
Is it common to get a Dr.'s note for sick leave for a couple of weeks before the due date?
I didnt have many sick days left. I used my 5 days of family leave, personal day and vol day and whatever I had left in sick leave. My employer didnt need a note.
Pension
Do your pension payments continue while on mat leave or do you have to make arrangements to pay into your pension while on leave?
I believe everything stops during leave and you will have to pay it back when you return from mat leave. I will be doing a lump sum payment when I return. There is an option to do monthly payments or you can op out if you dont want to have that year off to count towards your pension.
Income Tax
Do you need to set aside extra money for income tax or is enough deducted while on mat leave?
Yes you do. I am in a higher tax bracket, so I estimate my tax amount to be at least $3,500
EI
When can you apply? On your last day of work? Can you apply before the baby is born? Do you apply online on your own or through your workplace HR?
I dont remember the day but I did it I think a couple weeks before baby came. I applied online.
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Washing Oioi Bag
Has anyone washed their Oioi bag? If so, how? ...
Has anyone washed their Oioi bag? If so, how?
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C-Section Question
I will call on Monday and see what they say! ...
I will call on Monday and see what they say!
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C-Section Question
Did anyone else have problems 9 months later? ...
Did anyone else have problems 9 months later?
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C-Section Question
My scar was healing nicely. Then I noticed I was tender at the one end of my scar. I checked and part of it is...
My scar was healing nicely. Then I noticed I was tender at the one end of my scar. I checked and part of it is all red.
Should I get it checked?
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Re: Forums switching to Canadian family?
I didnt read all the posts but do we keep our current user names? ...
I didnt read all the posts but do we keep our current user names?
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Re: Blog Name
Blog is up! http://freezerpleasermeals.blogspot.com/ ...
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Thoughts re Daycare
For us we will have to do home day care due to the cost. I cant afford a center day care. ...
For us we will have to do home day care due to the cost. I cant afford a center day care.
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Cries during bedtime routine
Maybe your bed time routine is too long? The book I read recommended 30 mins at the most. ...
Maybe your bed time routine is too long? The book I read recommended 30 mins at the most.
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Re: Blog Name
I am freezing dinner meals mostly. ...
I am freezing dinner meals mostly.
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Re: Recommend your waterproof/shockproof camera
We have the Canon D10. It cost a bit more but worth it. The image quality is great both underwater and on land. It also...
We have the Canon D10. It cost a bit more but worth it. The image quality is great both underwater and on land.
It also takes great video.
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Blog Name
Please help me name my blog! I want to blog about my freezer cooking and recipes. ...
Please help me name my blog! I want to blog about my freezer cooking and recipes.
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More travel questions..
I would call Westjet directly with the luggage question. My tour provider gave me incorrect information and I had to pay an over weight bill...
I would call Westjet directly with the luggage question. My tour provider gave me incorrect information and I had to pay an over weight bill bc of them.
In regards to the formula. I took 2 bottles with water in my diaper bag and no one said anything to us. I had enough powder formula in my bag for 6 feedings.
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Sleep Help!
I guess you need to ask yourself if you are ok with cosleeping for the long run and the potential challenges you could have when...
I guess you need to ask yourself if you are ok with cosleeping for the long run and the potential challenges you could have when you want your LO to sleep in their own room.
For myself I wanted to teach my LO good sleeping habits now and hope he keeps up with them as he grows up. It was hard to get there but once there, it was great! We have been lucky that when he does get up at night, for the most part can sort it out himself. But naps are a different story
Maybe someone can recommend some reading to you so you can get the pro/cons to both sides?
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Travelling to the UK with a LO....
I just got back from Mexico and here is what I did. Let me know if you have any questions. Formula - you can bring...
I just got back from Mexico and here is what I did. Let me know if you have any questions.
Formula - you can bring formula on the plane no problem. I made sure I had all my liquids packaged as per the security guide lines. I had 2 bottles filled with water. I refilled them on the plane with fresh water since you cant drink the water in Mexico (our flight was 4 hours) I had enough formula in my carry on for 6 feeds.
I also brought my own electric kettle so I could boil the bottle water. It is pretty light.
Purees - you can get lots of purees to bring. My friend gave me some that are dried and all you had to do was add water. She didnt have enough for the week so I bought some that come in the plastic pouch. This way you dont have to worry about glass. You will be lucky that you should have access to a store so you can get fresh fruit, food, etc. I took with me throw away spoons and bowls.
Flight - our LO was great on the plane. Aside from being really tired from the trip (we flew at 6 am so his schedule was a mess) he was great on the plane. He slept most of the way there and back and during take off and landing.
Carseat - we didnt bring one only bc we didnt leave the resort and we transfered by bus between the airport and resort. I am not sure if you need it but you can get a neat carry on thingy from belly laughs that acts like a stroller and you attach your seat to it. I also saw parents at the airport who had a car seat that folded up and they carried it with them.
Sleeping - I brought my own sheet for LO crib. The resort gave us a play pen. He had no problems adjusting to sleeping some where else or to the time change (but it was only a one hour difference)
Tip - double check with your airline if you are allowed any luggage allowance for your LO. I was told that I wasnt allowed anything. I was 15 kg over my allowance and found out from the airline that I could of had a 10 kg carry on from my LO after my tour agent told me nothing. Also I was told some airlines will let you go over but you have to be preapproved prior to the flight.
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Re: Are you worried about your job security?
I am a bit worried bc I am on mat leave and dont have all the details or talk of what plans are going on...
I am a bit worried bc I am on mat leave and dont have all the details or talk of what plans are going on for my dept.
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Best AI for Infant
Really - LOL thanks ...
Really - LOL thanks
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Best AI for Infant
I havent seen it on itravel. I wonder who sells it. ...
I havent seen it on itravel. I wonder who sells it.
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Best AI for Infant
I posted about this before but I was wondering if anyone has other recommendations beside the Sensatori Azul for the best AI for an infant....
I posted about this before but I was wondering if anyone has other recommendations beside the Sensatori Azul for the best AI for an infant.
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Gallbladder removal surgery with LO?
I had mine taken out 3 weeks after I had my c/s. Yes I am crazy! I did have some left over stones that I...
I had mine taken out 3 weeks after I had my c/s. Yes I am crazy!
I did have some left over stones that I passed a couple weeks later. So far I have been stone free since then.
I do find I have to watch my diet and limit junky food. I get really bad heart burn if I dont!
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"No Name" Brand Formulas
We use Kirkland brand here and love it Really you cant go wrong for the price. ...
We use Kirkland brand here and love it
Really you cant go wrong for the price.
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Re: Cuba Wedding Be Careful with Photographer!
cdwells - I personally know that photographer you are taking about. And you are right, she wasnt even hired to shoot that wedding. ...
cdwells - I personally know that photographer you are taking about. And you are right, she wasnt even hired to shoot that wedding.
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Re: Last minute trip
If you want to go some where the week of Jan 28 to Feb 4th we can meet up with you since it is my...
If you want to go some where the week of Jan 28 to Feb 4th we can meet up with you since it is my DH vacation time
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I've created a monster
It will get better! About a month ago I posted that my LO would freak right out for both naps and night time after months...
It will get better! About a month ago I posted that my LO would freak right out for both naps and night time after months of no other issues. It went on for a long time the same odd routine. I followed all the sleep training and at one point I would let my LO CIO and it never worked.
Then out of no where, it got better. What we did differently, I have no idea.
I have no really suggestions but wanted to let you know that it will get better.
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Warm Trip Tips
Thanks for the tips! ...
Thanks for the tips!
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Warm Trip Tips
I was wondering if you can share your tips about visiting a resort with a LO. What things should we bring, etc. Also for those...
I was wondering if you can share your tips about visiting a resort with a LO. What things should we bring, etc.
Also for those who have travelled with your LO, did you go to the travel clinic?
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DS discovered his thumb today - couple Q's
Our LO discovered around 5 months that he could suck his thumb. I was happy that this was just a phase for him. It only...
Our LO discovered around 5 months that he could suck his thumb. I was happy that this was just a phase for him. It only lasted a month. Maybe it will be the same for you?
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Not rolling
I can count on one hand how many times my LO has rolled over. He will roll on his side but that is it. He...
I can count on one hand how many times my LO has rolled over. He will roll on his side but that is it. He is a bigger baby and have been told this is why. I am not going to worry about it too much.
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x-post: Recommend your camcorder
We paid $260 including taxes for our video camera. ...
We paid $260 including taxes for our video camera.
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x-post: Recommend your camcorder
We got a Samsung Q10. We do have a P&S that has video but the video on the samsung is much better quality then the...
We got a Samsung Q10. We do have a P&S that has video but the video on the samsung is much better quality then the P&S. Plus I take pictures and my DH likes to take video
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Giant Cupcake Question
How many cake box mix did you use? ...
How many cake box mix did you use?
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Reno Question!
We are finishing up our bathroom renos. My questions is does my light fixture and faucet finish have to match? I wanted to go with...
We are finishing up our bathroom renos. My questions is does my light fixture and faucet finish have to match?
I wanted to go with a dark finish light and brush nickle faucet but not sure if this is right! I am trying to save some money since the dark finish faucets are not cheap
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Best AI for Infant
Thanks everyone! This trip isnt going to be for the beach So I think we will be ok. ...
Thanks everyone! This trip isnt going to be for the beach
So I think we will be ok.
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It's really hard to have sex
Our LO sleeps in his own room. But our dog likes to stare ...
Our LO sleeps in his own room. But our dog likes to stare
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Best AI for Infant
DH and I are planning a trip with our LO for the new year. He will be 8 months. Any recommendations on where to go?...
DH and I are planning a trip with our LO for the new year. He will be 8 months. Any recommendations on where to go? We do not like Cuba so that is off the list and so is DR.
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1 mo old allergies HELP! (going crazy).
It could be a cow's milk protien allergies. Some times you are able to change your diet and it will help the baby but sometimes...
It could be a cow's milk protien allergies. Some times you are able to change your diet and it will help the baby but sometimes you cant.
I got information from my doctor on the different diets to follow. And it can be hard once you get into stage 2.
Have you through about trying the special formulas for the allergies? It could be something worth talking to your doctor about. Some of them can be covered by extended health plans with a letter/script from your doctor.
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Re: Pinterest - You vs. The Pin
Nevermind I found it ...
Nevermind I found it
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PLEASE HELP WITH NAPS
j - O is 6 months today. We have been doing sleep/nap training now for 6-7 weeks, if not longer. So it has been going...
j - O is 6 months today. We have been doing sleep/nap training now for 6-7 weeks, if not longer.
So it has been going on since then
The sleep training said it should get better and his crying would get shorter and shorter but it isnt
For the most part, we are following the same nap routine and in the same spot but he still fights the naps.
I know that he can nap he has done it before but I am not sure what is different that works for him those days.
I thought I was on to him last week when we tried napping in our room in the playpen. But that only lasted one day
I am so frustrated.
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PLEASE HELP WITH NAPS
I do all of that but sleeping on tummy. ...
I do all of that but sleeping on tummy.
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PLEASE HELP WITH NAPS
I have no idea what I am doing wrong but I am really at the end of my rope. EVERY SINGLE TIME I put my...
I have no idea what I am doing wrong but I am really at the end of my rope. EVERY SINGLE TIME I put my LO down for naps he will scream bloodly murder and not for 5-10 mins for the whole nap time.
I even tired putting him down in his play pen in another room and that doesnt help either.
It has to stop!
He doesnt do this for night time and I have no idea why he does this for naps.
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Baby Boy Holiday outfits
I got my LO a really cute sweater in the US last year. It is black with a tie knit in to it. For $3...
I got my LO a really cute sweater in the US last year. It is black with a tie knit in to it. For $3 you cant go wrong
I also got him a fleece carters outfit when I was in the US a couple weeks ago. It is cream, beige and red with moose on it
I wanted to grab him another sweater but with all the good sales this weekend everything in his size was gone
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I need a new car...any suggestions?
We have a Civic that my DH uses to go to work and I have our Pilot (SUV). We always use the SUV when we...
We have a Civic that my DH uses to go to work and I have our Pilot (SUV). We always use the SUV when we go out with our LO.
There really isnt any reason for us to have 2 large car/truck. Not to mention the extra cost on gas, insurance, etc.
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Re: Upper floor laundry or 2 piece en suite?
Personally I would take the laundry room. I love my large ensuite and having a small one would make me sad ...
Personally I would take the laundry room. I love my large ensuite and having a small one would make me sad
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Sleep training Q
Our LO does not nap well at all. So for the most part, I made sure I was at home to try to sleep train...
Our LO does not nap well at all. So for the most part, I made sure I was at home to try to sleep train him since it was important to us. However 4 weeks of training and his napping still sucks.
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Re: Photography at Church during Ceremony?
Sorry that this is happening but it isnt fair to ask you to miss out on your first kiss pictures. I hope you can work...
Sorry that this is happening but it isnt fair to ask you to miss out on your first kiss pictures. I hope you can work something out.
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EI Help
Bammers is correct. Your tax rate sounds off. ...
Bammers is correct. Your tax rate sounds off.
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Re: Photography at Church during Ceremony?
I would call. And if it is something that is important to you, then maybe you should find another church. I have worked many church...
I would call. And if it is something that is important to you, then maybe you should find another church.
I have worked many church weddings and I have never heard of this before.
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Bumbo yay or nay?
I am happy I got mine used. LO legs are too fat for it now He will sit in it for short periods of time...
I am happy I got mine used. LO legs are too fat for it now
He will sit in it for short periods of time being getting fussy.
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Please Help with Naps
I am really loosing my marbles. I know that my LO can sleep at least 1.5 hour at nap time but that doesnt happen very...
I am really loosing my marbles. I know that my LO can sleep at least 1.5 hour at nap time but that doesnt happen very often.
Today was a bad day. He only slept about 40 mins and cried/fussed most of the day.
We follow the same routine - wake, feed, play then nap time routine. Nap time routine is a diaper change, say goodbye to the dogs and then down in the crib.
Most days, he will show his tired signs and I will put him in his crib for his nap. He will cry for over 30 mins. After CIO he will fall asleep for 20 mins at the most.
It is driving both of us crazy. I am not sure what I am doing wrong or how to help him sleep. We have been trying sleep training now for almost 4 weeks and it isnt getting any better.
Night time routine is great but naps are another story.
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