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Re: Goodbye WBs...For real
I'm sad to hear about this, although I haven't been on the forum posting regularly at all recently...I was still reading! I joined 7 years...
I'm sad to hear about this, although I haven't been on the forum posting regularly at all recently...I was still reading!
I joined 7 years ago, and even though wedding planning was the reason, it was all the stuff that followed from TTC to M/C to raising a toddler, to figuring out how to best balance work & being a mom, that made me stay.
I loved having this cyber-community, and although I was too shy to ever make it to a GTG, I still felt connected.
So, thank you WB for coming up in my google search all those years ago, thank you to the mods/admin and everyone who made the forum work, and thank you to everyone for sharing a piece of advice, a story, a photo over the years.
All the best!
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Panicking about juggling a newborn and toddler
Don't panic yet! I think it will all work out for you. I think that by the time your DS doesn't fit in his car...
Don't panic yet! I think it will all work out for you.
I think that by the time your DS doesn't fit in his car seat for naps any more, you'll find that DD is bigger and she won't need to be "in front of the TV waiting" - she'll play more independently!
You'll probably also find you can feed DS when you're out and about, or else maybe in your play groups, DS will have the ability to "play" too.
I don't know how early your DD wakes up, but I do know that a newborn's schedule is going to change over the months, so you just don't really know what it's going to be like until you get there.
I think that you will find that you'll find a way to adjust, little babies are adaptable, and toddlers/preschoolers get more independent as they get older.
My DS' favourite things to do if he was ever "waiting" for DD: drawing/colouring, reading, and playing with his trains. I know for a friend, her DD would take care of her baby doll when her mom was busy with her baby sister.
Hang in there!
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My 4 year old wont sleep!!!
RNMommy, I didn't want to read and not respond. Not sure I have any good advice, but I found with DS, he just seemed to...
RNMommy, I didn't want to read and not respond. Not sure I have any good advice, but I found with DS, he just seemed to have so much energy still. So outside of his normal physical activity in the day, we've added a walk around our block after dinner (unless we go to the park).
It seems to have helped us some, not sure if it will help you?
I have also found with DS that it helps him to talk a little more before bed. I used to just talk about him what we were going to do the next day, but now he likes to talk about what has happened during the day, what he liked/didn't like etc. He was a total chatterbox when we put him to bed, not sure if your DD is like that?
Maybe she is just trying to process all her experiences too?
Good luck!
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At my wits end....
I'm not sure I have any good advice, but I didn't want to read and not respond. I too have found that sometimes after my...
I'm not sure I have any good advice, but I didn't want to read and not respond.
I too have found that sometimes after my kids get sick/grow teeth, their sleep routine is gone and it is difficult to return to the "norm".
Once they are better and I like they are beginning to take advantage of the situation, then that's when sleep training comes into effect. I am not a good CIO person though, so I basically try to get them used to going through the bedtime routine again, and avoid any distractions from it.
With my kids, I have found that when they are/or have been sick, they definitely are clingy to me, so I just go with it for a short period and slowly try to "wean" them out of it as they feel better.
Also, do you think she might be over-tired and needing to go to bed earlier, because they often don't get quality sleep when they're sick?
Good luck, sorry that I don't have much advice.
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Toddler Complaining Eye Hurts?
I think it's hard to say without seeing the eye, so I'm with LolaLola - I would go to the doctor and then the kids'...
I think it's hard to say without seeing the eye, so I'm with LolaLola - I would go to the doctor and then the kids' optometrist if the doctor didn't see anything.
My DH and his family have terrible eyesight, so I've been very sensitive to my kids' eyes/eyesight. Last summer, my DS began to complain on and off about his eye hurting, or he'd be rubbing at it, or blinking. A lot.
We took him to the optometrist and he was okay in the fall, went back this week for the 6 month follow up that they had scheduled, and this evening, he started wearing his first pair of eyeglasses.
Not saying that's what is happening for your kid, but definitely, if you think it might be "something", then I'd check it out!
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My twin girls are here!
Congratulations! They look so precious! ...
Congratulations! They look so precious!
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Recommendations for a Difficult 3.5 Year Old
I do pretty much what the previous posters have said. DS gets 2 choices - you can have cheese & crackers or you can have...
I do pretty much what the previous posters have said.
DS gets 2 choices - you can have cheese & crackers or you can have an apple. If he throws a tantrum, I tell him that he can either pick one of the 2 items, or he can continue his tantrum in his bedroom.
If we're trying to get him dressed, same idea. 2 choices, and either pick one or you don't go out...usually he wants to go wherever we're going though, so that typically works.
I definitely find that for DS, when he's not in a cooperative mood, is to let him know that he can throw a tantrum in his bedroom, or if he's just pouting, then I leave him be. I tell him where I'm going to be, and when he's ready he can come talk to me "with words and in his nice voice."
Usually after a couple of minutes, he's good to go. At which point, I shower him with affection telling him how much I love his "nice voice"
When I'm at the end of my rope, I repeat incessantly to myself, "this too shall pass"...seriously, never used that phrase as much as I have since becoming a parent!
Haven't read any books, so no recommendations for you, but I would definitely try to get her into a quiet spot when she's upset and having her come to you when she's ready.
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Toddler room help
I love the concept, love the bedding, and love what you've put together! I'm not much help with artwork though I'm afraid, as I tend...
I love the concept, love the bedding, and love what you've put together!
I'm not much help with artwork though I'm afraid, as I tend to go the easy & inexpensive route - I let DS paint his own canvases and hung it in his room, and for DD I have some art prints from etsy right now.
These are the etsy sellers I have for DD:
Jolinne pennywishes Both sellers were really great about customizing colours for me to match DDs room.
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Re: Can Employer For You Too...
No, I don't think they can force you to join a social networking group. I would consider creating a second shell account though if it...
No, I don't think they can force you to join a social networking group. I would consider creating a second shell account though if it was going to be an issue for my career with the organization.
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Heinous...or kind of genius? (kids & travel)
Well, I used to be of the "never leave a kid behind" mindset, however, after taking DS to Disney this past November, I'm very glad...
Well, I used to be of the "never leave a kid behind" mindset, however, after taking DS to Disney this past November, I'm very glad that I did not bring DD along with me.
DS is 3 - he loved every moment of being at Disney and although there were a few rides he couldn't go on, there was more than enough to keep him busy. He tells everyone about his trip to Disney and seeing his "friends" (LOL) and always wants to see the photos. I definitely think he "got something" out of it.
DD is 16 months old and I really don't think she would've enjoyed it very much, given the line ups and the way our whole "day schedule" was out the window from sleep times to eating times. I still can't believe all the line ups even when it was "off-peak" season; DD would've been so bored waiting and I think the rides would've been too much stimulation for her. Also, she doesn't like being in crowds very much...
However, we are definitely going to take DD to Disney when she is older, and I think the perfect ages would be 5 and 7. DS will be big enough to go on all the rides, and DD will still believe in the "magic" of Disney.
So, all this to say Mme Bruni - I'd go in 2013!
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Help - consequences for 3 1/2 yo
Oh my gosh, I have no advice, but I am so glad to hear that it's not just my 3 yr old kid!!!! For us,...
Oh my gosh, I have no advice, but I am so glad to hear that it's not just my 3 yr old kid!!!!
For us, I feel like it's a separation anxiety issue because it seems like he has been doing it ever since I went back to work in August. Lucky for us, he actually does sleep well in our bed, so during the week, I just let him sleep with us...and if he comes in to visit on the weekends, we take him back to bed.
When he fusses after that, I tell him he has 2 choices - go to sleep with his elmo blanket or go to sleep without it.
And any night that he doesn't come to our bed, I make sure we make a big deal in the morning about what a big boy he is and give him a "treat".
I hope it gets better for you soon!
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SPIN: Boy/Girl siblings and bathing?
I'm going with what people have said - whenever it seems to be uncomfortable for either/both of them. Right now though, I have to say,...
I'm going with what people have said - whenever it seems to be uncomfortable for either/both of them. Right now though, I have to say, it's pretty awesome time-saving, and pretty fun to watch them play together!
And if we get to separate baths, then we'll probably just do one after the other.
BTW - Congrats on your little girl!!
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Re: Cover letters and internal jobs
I have always included a cover letter with positions that I've posted for internally. ...
I have always included a cover letter with positions that I've posted for internally.
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Which etsy seller for i-spy bag??
I got mine from aebaby . I like that the items are listed on the item itself and there's lots of different things in them....
I got mine from
aebaby .
I like that the items are listed on the item itself and there's lots of different things in them.
Seller was easy to work with and quick in replying to my questions.
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Leaving your 1yr old...reassurance needed please!
Okay, this is a total pity post and there is no real point to this post other than I am feeling lots of mommy guilt...
Okay, this is a total pity post and there is no real point to this post other than I am feeling lots of mommy guilt and anxiety about leaving my DD for 6 nights (!!!) next month.
She'll be 15 months old and I know people have left their kids younger, but I haven't even been away from my DS for more than 1 night and he's 3.
I'm going to LA for work, so DH & DS are coming along as we figure we might as well take advantage and take DS to Disneyland. So, I agree it will be easier without her (she walks, but not enough to be at DL)...it's just not feeling that easy on me
And she will be well taken care of my my sisters-in-law/brothers-in-law who all volunteered to take care of her. So, being practical, yes I know she'll be okay...but I can't stop feeling sad and guilty about leaving her at home...
So ladies, tell me about your experiences leaving your 1yr old at home and tell me it's going to be okay please!
And thanks for listening/reading!
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Disneyland/LA for a 3yr old - Suggestions?
Thanks for the advice! I will have to check out knotts berry farm, KD - I've heard about it, but I keep thinking of jam...
Thanks for the advice!
I will have to check out knotts berry farm, KD - I've heard about it, but I keep thinking of jam when I hear the name....
A friend also told us that we should go to Adventure City - also cheaper/smaller, but good for kids like DS' age?
Pirates is under refurbishment unfortunately while we're there, and it's a small world is undergoing the holiday install
boo!
But it definitely sounds like 2 days is the way to go! I told DH that I don't want to feel rushed, and even though I know we'll be going back (DD is being left at home this time) when the kids are older, I don't want to feel like we missed out on too much.
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Disneyland/LA for a 3yr old - Suggestions?
First - if there's a thread on this already, please let me know...I can never get the search function to work for me. I have...
First - if there's a thread on this already, please let me know...I can never get the search function to work for me.
I have a training class in LA next month, so DH & DS are going to come along with me and we thought we'd take DS to Disneyland while we were there.
So I need your advice please! Any input you might have on tips for visiting Disneyland with a 3yr old, and how many days you think is enough. DH thinks one day because there's not a lot of rides that DS can enjoy, and I was thinking two...
Also, what else are good places for us to visit while there? Any recommendations on places to eat?
We currently have a hotel at Disneyland for the weekend, and then we'll be at LA Live for a few days before coming home.
Thanks for any advice!!
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Spin: Best clothes for a family photoshoot
When we had family photos, it was recommended to figure out the kids' outfits, and dress them in whatever they look good in. And then...
When we had family photos, it was recommended to figure out the kids' outfits, and dress them in whatever they look good in. And then you can figure out your clothes to coordinate.
Usually I put the kids in the brighter colours, and then DH & I stick with the neutrals.
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My little girl turned one today!
Happy 1st Birthday, Leah! And also, congrats on #2 ...
Happy 1st Birthday, Leah!
And also, congrats on #2
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Going on vacation and DD only sleeping in dark..
I'd bring the bags as backup...if you think it's dark enough without them (i.e. a "darkness" that she should learn to adjust to), then try...
I'd bring the bags as backup...if you think it's dark enough without them (i.e. a "darkness" that she should learn to adjust to), then try it without the bags.
It also depends upon how well they sleep away from their usual bed to begin with. DS always has a tough time sleeping in a new environment, and I basically have to get him completely exhausted for him to fall asleep, and it has to be very dark otherwise he says it's "not dark" for him to sleep.
DD on the other hand, will sleep anywhere as long as it's within her usual time range of sleeping...and it can have some light seeping in.
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August Mama's - July
Well, I have found my birthday "theme" for DD, inspired by some nail polish colours I saw, LOL I bought the poms above, and now...
Well, I have found my birthday "theme" for DD, inspired by some nail polish colours I saw, LOL
I bought the poms above, and now I'm just trying to figure out whether I have time to get a banner made to go with, or if I should make my own.
Anyway, at least I've finally started on something!
I think that we're just going to have a small birthday party though, and small for us is like Jessica - about 20-25 people. DHs extended family is very large, and if we were to invite them all, we'd end up at about 60 people. We did that for DS' first birthday, but he doesn't mind crowds and DD tends to get overwhelmed.
I'm actually thinking I might just have DH's immediate family over - that would already make 10 of us. We're celebrating with my family the night prior to DDs birthday since my grandma is in town, and it's her birthday too.
So, DD has had a busy couple of weeks. Just before Whistler, she was cutting her 2 top teeth and learning to stand. Then on the Monday after we returned she took her first few steps! I was beginning to think it was a fluke though, since the next few days she didn't do it, just crawled everywhere.
But, this weekend, she has been walking a few steps again, albeit very tentatively...sounds kind of like what your Kyle is doing, mamawee
It's very cute to watch! And exciting, and makes me kind of sad that my baby really is going to be a toddler soon!
Amanda - that is crummy to hear about your job, I'm sorry!
rinstah - double yay on getting a theme too!
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Good bedtime for a toddler? Update at Top
I vote for moving up the nap time too. My DS is one of those late sleepers...his bedtime at that age was about 930pm and...
I vote for moving up the nap time too.
My DS is one of those late sleepers...his bedtime at that age was about 930pm and he would sleep a full 12 hours, plus a 2 hour nap.
He now goes to bed at 10pm, no matter how hard I try to get him to bed earlier, and he sleeps about 11 hours, plus an afternoon nap. His wake-up time remains about 930am, regardless of how late he goes to bed, so I definitely don't like him going to be any later than 10pm as it just means less sleep for everyone, and a cranky boy in the morning.
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Two car seats?
We bought 2 car seats for DS and it has been very convenient for us. I think if I had to move the seat every...
We bought 2 car seats for DS and it has been very convenient for us. I think if I had to move the seat every day it would be a hassle.
We love having our 2 seats!
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August Mama's - July
Happy belated birthday ready & mo_mo and happy birthday MrsD! Mamawee - hope Kyle is okay, that must've been scary! Re: naps - DD has...
Happy belated birthday ready & mo_mo and happy birthday MrsD!
Mamawee - hope Kyle is okay, that must've been scary!
Re: naps - DD has 2 naps right now, and I don't think that will change anytime soon. It's too long between a nap & bedtime otherwise. I am hoping that her sleep habits will change slightly still though, and that eventually her & DS will nap in the afternoon at the same time. With my luck, DD will adjust and then DS will drop naps altogether!
So, as michiko talks about party planning, I am embarrassed to say that after all the great ideas everyone shared, I am still no further along.
I think I just need to put all the ideas I like in a hat, and pick one, LOL.
I did buy a purple pettiskirt for her, but unfortunately, it got mixed up in all the postal strike mess, so now I don't know when I'm going to actually receive it. I had wanted to use it to take her first year photos, but not sure if it's going to arrive in time.
We went up to Whistler for Canada Day, and the kids had so much fun...DD actually enjoyed the swimming pool a lot more than I expected. Our first night home and DS wanted to "sleep in hotel"...hahaha
I'm going into work next week for a meeting with my regional vp and I have to say...not particularly excited as it just means I'm that much closer to returning to work. I feel so much more sad this time around, compared to last time.
gelliott - love the photos! And although I agree that taking a bajillion photos helps to find the "great" one, I think you & your photo-taking skills and camera probably help more
mamawee - hope julien had a great birthday dinner!
jessica - have fun in Toronto!
gotta run, my DS is throwing a tantrum over something....
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Was #2 as scary and overwhelming as #1?
I'm so excited for you, spring! I actually feel like I missed most of DDs newborn stage...felt a bit like I was on auto-pilot until...
I'm so excited for you, spring!
I actually feel like I missed most of DDs newborn stage...felt a bit like I was on auto-pilot until she reached about 6 months old and then I came out of the fog.
But I think a lot of that was also because the period from September-December is really busy in our extended families with birthdays, and last year, we had a wedding and 3 additional babies arriving so there was so much happening at the same time.
It was definitely less scary to bring home a newborn, and sometimes felt overwhelming...just in a different way. ie not because you didn't know what you were doing, but more because you were trying to figure out how to juggle everything.
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Picnic lunch help
cheese, crackers, and carrot sticks are what we often pack for lunches on the go apples & grapes are good fruit options raisins and snack-packs...
cheese, crackers, and carrot sticks are what we often pack for lunches on the go
apples & grapes are good fruit options
raisins and snack-packs of teddy bear grahams are our snacks
hope this helps!
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Re: Cake... What would you pay for this?
$200 is what I would expect for a cake like this! ...
$200 is what I would expect for a cake like this!
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Would you delay solids in this case?
I guess it depends upon if you are planning on starting off with rice cereal or similar? If I were you, I would just bring...
I guess it depends upon if you are planning on starting off with rice cereal or similar? If I were you, I would just bring the package of rice cereal and go ahead and start. When you're in the DR you can still mix it with breastmilk or formula, you don't have to stop.
I would then wait until I returned before introducing anything else other than cereal. Too much hassle to bring along a bunch of jars that the baby may or may not like.
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August Mommies - Month of June!
ARGH! I just typed out a whole post and my DD erased it So, clearly my computer time is over, but I wanted to know...
ARGH!
I just typed out a whole post and my DD erased it
So, clearly my computer time is over, but I wanted to know what "themes", if any, you are going to have for your LO's first birthday? I can't decide!
And I promise to come back later and re-type my s/o's again!
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Any tummy sleepers??
My DS was like that too...he slept best either on his tummy or in my arms. I was nervous in the beginning, but him sleeping...
My DS was like that too...he slept best either on his tummy or in my arms.
I was nervous in the beginning, but him sleeping well meant better rest for me, and that outweighed everything else!
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Cake Decorators - I DID IT! (LOTS O' PICS)
Your cake looks FANTASTIC, Humber! Great job!! ...
Your cake looks FANTASTIC, Humber! Great job!!
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If you're still nursing...
With DS, it returned at 9 months, and because I was returning to work early, this coincided with me reducing his feeds during the day....
With DS, it returned at 9 months, and because I was returning to work early, this coincided with me reducing his feeds during the day.
With DD, she's 10 months old on Tuesday, and no sign of AF yet.
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Re: Recommend your fave spa
If you're looking for the "fancy" spas... Spa Utopia - you can get gift cards for them at costco sometimes at 20% discount Fairmont Pacific...
If you're looking for the "fancy" spas...
Spa Utopia - you can get gift cards for them at costco sometimes at 20% discount
Fairmont Pacific Rim's Willow Stream
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The Forgotten Child - An interesting blog post
I feel kind of like this right now when I have DS in various activities and DD in none. But, I also love how she...
I feel kind of like this right now when I have DS in various activities and DD in none. But, I also love how she will happily play with her toys & books independently for short periods of time.
I definitely think that being aware of the time you're spending with each child, and doing something about it when you feel you have an imbalance is a step in the right direction.
I'm not worried about DD being forgotten...she's been quiet so far, but she's beginning to discover her voice, and it's pretty loud! In the meantime, I'm taking advantage of her independence to get stuff done around the house!
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2 yrs apart? 3 yrs? What's the "best" age gap?
For me, our 2 year age gap has been great so far. Our goal was somewhere in the 2-3 year gap, and it just ended...
For me, our 2 year age gap has been great so far. Our goal was somewhere in the 2-3 year gap, and it just ended up being closer to 2 than 3.
DS understood that there was a baby in my belly once I got big, but not really what that really meant I think.
However, he loves his baby sister, and has had a great transition into being a big brother - the toughest part has only just started recently with him needing to share the toys a little more, since now DD can move towards toys.
I think for me, it's worked out well because DS has always been happy to play independently, so there have been very few occasions where he has insisted on my sole attention when I needed to feed/change DD. Plus, DD is much more efficient at BFing than DS so it's a short amount of time where my hands are literally full.
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August Mommies-Month of May!
kbaby - omg, those pictures! Thank you to everyone for sharing your routines with me...I have 2 nightowls on my hands, but I think I...
kbaby - omg, those pictures!
Thank you to everyone for sharing your routines with me...I have 2 nightowls on my hands, but I think I will try to ease DD into an earlier bedtime and see if that helps. Either that, or feed her more food in the day because when she wakes up at 4am she is actually wide awake. If her eyes were still closed, then I would just let her cry back to sleep.
Anyway, it's been tougher than usual because DS is teething is molars, and his sleep has been crap too.
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August Mommies-Month of May!
Hi, everyone! I can't believe another month has come and gone again... I know I haven't posted much, but like AppleBlossom, it's been a rough...
Hi, everyone!
I can't believe another month has come and gone again...
I know I haven't posted much, but like AppleBlossom, it's been a rough month of sleep deprivation between my little girl and her toddler brother. Which brings me to a question for everyone:
How long is your baby sleeping overnight? And what is your nap schedule like in the day?
C slept 8 hours for about 2 weeks around 6 1/2 months, and then teething started and her sleep went to crap. She got 2 teeth right around 7 1/2-8 months, and now at almost 9 months, she's just sleeping 6-7 hours at her longest stretch overnight. I feed her, she sleeps for another 2-3 hours, and then she's up for the morning.
She goes down for a nap about 3-4 hours after waking up in the morning, is awake for roughly the same, before taking her afternoon nap.
I made the mistake of looking at G.oogle, and of course, it says that 9-12 months old should be sleeping 11-14 hours overnight. Nowhere near my little girl!
So, please, tell me about your 9 month old!
And Jessica - hope May is kinder to you than April was!
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A few pics of my DS Backyardigans Party
Love the decorations! And the loot bags are very cute! ...
Love the decorations! And the loot bags are very cute!
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Re: Happy Birthday AutumnBride!
Happy Birthday! ...
Happy Birthday!
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Re: FYI girl guide cookies!
Looks like I'm making a trip to Sears today...thanks for posting! ...
Looks like I'm making a trip to Sears today...thanks for posting!
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Re: Do you plan to vote?
Absolutely! ...
Absolutely!
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Re: Wanted: Your opinion on this letter to the editor
Okay, I generally stay out of posts like these. However, since I have a Chinese background and my parents immigrated here, and I live in...
Okay, I generally stay out of posts like these. However, since I have a Chinese background and my parents immigrated here, and I live in Richmond now, I feel like I should add in a few thoughts.
1) When it comes to the older generation, there is no doubt that they are more comfortable speaking in their mother tongue, and learning English is extremely challenging. My grandmother can speak basic English, but I guarantee you, if she's in a store and she has the option between a service person who speaks Chinese and one who doesn't, she's going to wait for the person who speaks Chinese.
Why? Because that generation is really attached to this notion of pride and avoiding any embarassment/failure at any cost. So, even though she can speak basic words, she is so afraid of saying something incorrectly that she would rather just not say anything at all.
2) I have been in Richmond for about 15 years now. There has definitely been a lot of change, and this influx of Asian malls is definitely one of them. However, my Chinese is terrible. It's my second language, and I suck at it. So, when I go to the Asian malls, I speak English for almost all interactions, unless I'm saying "thank you". And, I've never had any challenges with communication. Sure, their English might not be great, but if I speak English to them, I still get service.
I don't pay too much attention to store signs, if there's something I want in the store, then I go in. I can't think of an instance right now where I ran into someone who wouldn't help me because I didn't speak Chinese, or they didn't speak English.
3) I know that for those living in Richmond, sometimes it feels like everywhere you go, all you hear is Chinese. But this is where Altergirl's post is so very true...people are always going to hold conversations in the language they are most comfortable with. Why does it have to mean they don't speak English? Why can't it just be that they are more comfortable speaking their native language?
4) The letter writer - yeah, he's one perspective. But from my experience with my family and friends - he's in the minority. I will agree that perhaps becoming completely fluent is not a priority for some immigrants, but all the ones I know have certainly tried to learn some basic words. But just as Chinese is difficult to learn...so is English!
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I vaguely remember but it could
We're doing the plastic eggs and filling them with random items for DS again. DD isn't going to understand, so it will just be for...
We're doing the plastic eggs and filling them with random items for DS again. DD isn't going to understand, so it will just be for DS this year. I'm just going to fill them with stickers, stamps, mini cars, and cut out paper shapes that he will then use to do a craft of some sort.
I don't want it to become a "big gift" kind of holiday, so the easter egg hunt is it.
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Re: change your facebook settings again...
Thank you! ...
Thank you!
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Vent - My baby DOES NOT need to diet
I am so glad that you are not listening to your MIL. Unless your doctor raises a concern, let your baby eat whatever she wants....
I am so glad that you are not listening to your MIL. Unless your doctor raises a concern, let your baby eat whatever she wants.
And you should take lots of photos, video, and enjoy your roly poly chubby baby because like Tanky said, once she starts moving, those rolls just melt right off. And you won't even believe that she was once roly poly
My DS was a super chubby baby, now he's a skinny toddler and my MIL thinks I'm not feeding him enough food. I think that some MILs just need to feel like they are sharing "wisdom".
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August 2010 Mommies - March (already??)!
Hi, everyone! Well, Ready - if it makes you feel better, I have barely been giving DD any solids recently! I started when she was...
Hi, everyone!
Well, Ready - if it makes you feel better, I have barely been giving DD any solids recently! I started when she was 6 months, and then a couple weeks later, she got sick. She has just been better this past week, and I've been lazy, so all she's had so far is rice cereal. I will be hitting those solids with a vengeance this week, but just wanted to let you know - it's okay that you hadn't been giving your LO as much as the other moms...I'm still behind
I do agree with the other PPs, however, if your LO is waking up 5+ times per night and has a full bottle each time, then you may want to consider trying to get more food in her during the day so that she sleeps a little better at night. As you seem to be on the go for much of the day right now, maybe you can commit to giving your LO solids in the evening, maybe an hour before the last bottle?
So, I've been lucky...ever since DD moved to her crib, she's pretty much been STTN other than when she was sick. Unfortunately, because it happened so quickly, I ended up with a milk blister or clogged duct, I don't even know anymore. All I know is that I still have it, albeit it's a lot less painful now than it was in the beginning. My doctor is sending me to the BF clinic on Monday, and hopefully they can help me figure it out there.
I don't think it's a latching issue, but I just can't seem to get it to go away, and now I think it's impeding DDs ability to properly feed from that side.
We aren't crawling over here yet, no talking, no teeth...just a lot of rolling, jumping in the exersaucer, blowing raspberries, and making sounds. I'm going to start baby sign language with her this week as well...another item that got delayed when she was sick. I did it with DS, and was pleasantly surprised when he actually picked it up. Now he still occasionally uses it to communicate - specifically when his mouth his full and he wants something
Gelliott & CEO - hope you are all feeling better soon!
Rinstah - yay for vacation! And yay for swimming! I'm a chicken, so my DS is just going for his first swimming lessons next month...he's 2 1/2
He's been in pools before, but I was always so nervous about taking him for actual lessons. Kinda wished I had though, since now if he freaks out in the water he is a little more vocal....
Lala - that's great that you have some good childcare options! I have been stressing about this recently myself. We had determined that with 2 kids needing care, it was going to be easiest to get a nanny. The process can be lengthy and we aren't sure if MIL is going to want/be able to step in if we needed her. However, someone has been referred to us, and I'm interviewing tomorrow...fingers crossed that she is the right fit for us!
kbaby and gelliott - LOVE the photos! So cute!
Michiko - yay for Milo STTN! Hope it continues for you!
Brunette - yay for your LO saying Mama
And mamawee, mamaleo, jessica, mrsD, and everyone else, hello!
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XPOST - Groupon today - Mixbook/photobooks
The groupon in Vancouver today is for Mixbook - $15 for $50 value. Mixbook is an online service, and you can purchase groupons for other...
The groupon in Vancouver today is for Mixbook - $15 for $50 value. Mixbook is an online service, and you can purchase groupons for other cities. Shipping is not included, but the voucher is good for a whole year!
Groupon Vancouver I thought I'd post this, as chickypoo recently reviewed this on her blog -
Mixbook review
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Today's Groupon - Mixbook/photobook service
The groupon in Vancouver today is for Mixbook - $15 for $50 value. Mixbook is an online service, and you can purchase groupons for other...
The groupon in Vancouver today is for Mixbook - $15 for $50 value. Mixbook is an online service, and you can purchase groupons for other cities. Shipping is not included, but the voucher is good for a whole year!
Groupon Vancouver I thought I'd post this, as chickypoo recently reviewed this on her blog -
Mixbook review
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If you had 5 hours.... ALONE... in your house....
Ohhh...what I could do with 5 hours straight to myself in the house... Sorry, cleaning isn't one of them. But I would definitely soak in...
Ohhh...what I could do with 5 hours straight to myself in the house...
Sorry, cleaning isn't one of them.
But I would definitely soak in a bubble bath or take a ridiculously long shower, read a book in bed, and then sleep. There would not be any noise in the house, except for the water running when I was in the bath or shower.
Just plain silence, without thinking about how long I had until DS needed something or DD started crying for food. That would be bliss to me!
Although, right now if I really did get 5 hrs, I should probably go and get my hair cut! LOL
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Shameless brag post! (can you see this?)
Such beautiful photos! And Leah's smile is absolutely joyous! I love the one of you leaning over her too...those are always my favourites because they...
Such beautiful photos! And Leah's smile is absolutely joyous! I love the one of you leaning over her too...those are always my favourites because they are only so little for so long.
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